“Thanks, It Has Pockets!”: Why We Deflect Compliments and What It Says About Cultural Expectations
Emily DeMalto Emily DeMalto

“Thanks, It Has Pockets!”: Why We Deflect Compliments and What It Says About Cultural Expectations

“Thanks, it has pockets!” is more than a quirky response to a compliment—it’s a reflection of deeper cultural norms around how women receive praise. This blog unpacks the meaning behind deflected compliments, the societal expectations at play, and how learning to simply say “thank you” can become a radical act of self-worth and connection.

Read More
“Oh My God, Don’t Say That!” How to Support Someone in Emotional Distress Without Shutting Them Down
Emily DeMalto Emily DeMalto

“Oh My God, Don’t Say That!” How to Support Someone in Emotional Distress Without Shutting Them Down

When someone shares a painful or alarming thought like “I hate myself,” our instinct may be to shut it down out of fear or discomfort. But those reactions can unintentionally invalidate their experience. This blog offers compassionate, practical steps for how to respond supportively—so your presence can become a source of connection and healing.an idea.

Read More