Compartmentalizing vs. Avoidance: What’s The Difference?
Emily DeMalto Emily DeMalto

Compartmentalizing vs. Avoidance: What’s The Difference?

We all find ways to cope with difficult emotions, but not all strategies serve us equally. Compartmentalizing can be a healthy way to acknowledge a feeling without being consumed by it, while avoidance often pushes emotions away altogether—only for them to resurface later. The difference lies in how we relate to what shows up. In this blog, we’ll explore how to tell them apart and how to practice mindful acknowledgment so you can protect your energy without losing touch with your emotions.

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What It Really Means to "Sit with Feelings" — And Why It's So Hard (But Worth It)
Emily DeMalto Emily DeMalto

What It Really Means to "Sit with Feelings" — And Why It's So Hard (But Worth It)

Sitting with your feelings sounds simple—but in reality, it’s one of the hardest and most transformative practices in emotional healing. And you’ve probably never been taight how to do it. This post explores why it’s so difficult to stay present with uncomfortable emotions, how our nervous system and past experiences shape our responses, and the tools you can use to develop resilience, self-trust, and deeper awareness through mindful emotional presence.

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Stop Chasing Happy
Emily DeMalto Emily DeMalto

Stop Chasing Happy

We’ve been taught to chase happiness—but what if that pursuit is leading us further away from fulfillment? This post explores why happiness is often fleeting and how shifting our focus toward contentment and values-based living can bring deeper, more sustainable peace. If you’re feeling burnt out, overwhelmed, or stuck in the Sunday scaries, this is your invitation to pause and reflect on what really matters.

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